Welcome to season 2 of the Determined to Dance podcast. I pray that you’ll be uplifted, encouraged, and will move forward each and every day. Today’s episode, Praying for Others: A Gift, focuses on the most important act of love you can share with another.

Show Notes: Praying for Others: A Gift

Presents. Cards. Flowers. I love giving and receiving gifts. So, it’s no surprise that in Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages, the top way to say you love me is to give me a gift, followed closely by words of affirmation. But even if presents are not what you enjoy most, many people still like the time, effort, and thought that goes into gift-giving. It’s like dancing with a friend who has taken the time to figure out and then learn your favorite dance. What a wonderful surprise.

How is praying for others a gift? Intercession is the word used in the Bible to express praying for others. The New Testament shows that Jesus intercedes for us. Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us.” Romans 8:34

Our Savior and Creator of the universe prays for me. And you. We are so special to Him that His time and energy are focused on lifting us up to the Father. What higher calling could we have than to imitate Christ through prayer? In the book, The Power of Simple Prayer, Joyce Meyer mentions two distinctions when praying about people.

  1. We pray for people.
  2. We pray with people.

I’d not looked at intercession in that way, but it’s exactly what we do. We pray for people who, many times, will never know we did. We see or hear of people who don’t know God and we lift prayers for them to experience the same wonderful relationship that we have. We talk to God for people who are so overwhelmed or grieved, that they cannot utter a word. We give them a gift of love through prayer. Often, when people are very ill like many were with Covid, they are not able to pray. Through prayer, we take their hand and God’s hand and connect the two. Ezekiel says it best in chapter twenty-two, verse thirty-one: “So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it, but I found no one.” God looked then and seeks now for people to bridge the gap between Him and man. We can be that bridge.

Sometimes, we pray with others. We receive a phone call. A friend mentions someone who’s been in a car wreck, has a sick child, or needs to pass a test for a new job. We stop and pray with them. We lift their need to the Father and ask for His help, healing, and wisdom. Whether we are beside them, lifting up needs in agreement, or half a world away, we intercede on behalf of those who need our prayers. Needs in our community, state, nation, and world are endless, and what an honor it is to be able to bestow a gift of intercession to another.

Many years ago, we discovered my oldest child had a heart defect when she was in her early twenties. It hadn’t been detected before but when she became pregnant with our first grandchild, she started experiencing a racing pulse, shortness of breath, and other scary issues. After our granddaughter was born, we set a date for our daughter’s heart surgery similar to an ablation to correct the problem. I was very anxious about her on the day of surgery and when the surgery went over the allotted time with no word from the surgical team, I became frantic and could not pray. It was all I could do to sit in the waiting room and not have a full-out panic attack. It was so important that people were praying when I couldn’t. People were in agreement for my child and my family. For me. We found out later that the first method the surgeon tried was unsuccessful due to the proximity of the problem and they had to try a different method. The second was successful and she came through the surgery with flying colors. I discovered when I couldn’t pray, Jesus did and other people did.

A true and comforting gift from friends and family. And there were probably people praying that didn’t know even my daughter, who only heard there was a need. And they filled the gap.

Will you step forward and take the challenge of praying for others? It will cost you time and energy but the rewards are great. Many times, we won’t know until we reach heaven what a difference we’ve made by simply expressing the needs of others to God. Looking back at Ezekiel 22: 30, the sad part of that verse was when he mentions that though God sought someone to stand in the gap, he found no one. We can be the ones to change a life today.

Let’s pray: Father God, our highest calling is to lift the needs of your people to you through intercession. Thank you for allowing us that honor. We pray first for our friends and family who don’t know you. Bring them into a relationship with You. We pray for their physical and emotional healing. We pray for financial needs and ask that you give us peace and comfort during these troubled times we live in. You are mighty and holy and enough. In Jesus’ name, we pray, amen.

Be like Jesus. Give a gift to another by spending time each day in intercessory prayer. Next week, we’ll discuss pressing in when praying for others is difficult. Until then, stay determined to dance.

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  • Jennifer Hallmark

    Jennifer Hallmark writes Southern fiction with a twist. Her website and newsletter focus on her books, love of the South, and favorite fiction. She creates stories with unforgettable characters—her stories are a little eerie and otherworldly but with a positive turn. Jessie’s Hope, her first novel, was a Selah Award nominee for First Novel. Her latest novel, Smoking Flax, will be released on January 16th, 2024. When she isn’t babysitting, gardening, or exploring the beautiful state of Alabama, you can find her at her desk penning fiction or studying the craft of writing. She also loves reading and streaming fantasy, supernatural stories, and detective fiction from the Golden Age or her favorite subject—time travel.