When I was about 8 years old, I lived in the high desert in Southern California. We had 5 acres of land, most of it a field. Aunt Margaret and Uncle Jimmy lived on the other side of the field, about a mile away.We were pretty close and liked to spend time together.

I had a pony named Frosty and I rode him across the field to their house every week and Aunt Margaret taught me how to play a new card game. She taught me how to be a “good loser” by saying, “if you’re gonna cry, I’m not going to play with you.” I really wanted to play, so I sniffled, blew my nose, and stopped crying. In other words, it worked. Now I enjoy the game and Aunt Margaret and I have a good relationship as adults. 

Not only did I learn how to play Canasta, I got to spend time with Aunt Margaret.   And, of course, good memories from some 40+ years ago.

It didn’t take a lot, but Aunt Margaret’s spending time with me on a regular basis, made an impact on me and is a special memory I cherish.

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  • Ellen

    Ellen is originally from California and moved to South Carolina in 2002. She is active as a Stephen Minister in her church and enjoys gardening. Ellen has been through and continues to battle multiple medical trials. She shares the mental, emotional, and spiritual battles and victories she's had with anyone who will listen.